People say it gets harder to find friends after you leave college, but I don’t think that’s true. If you put yourself out there, new people are everywhere and its easy to make friends. What’s really hard is finding good and trustworthy friends after college.
It’s important to never give more than you’re getting. Every friendship should be special and worth keeping but they’re not always that.
No person should ever feel like they aren’t getting anything out of a friendship and that they’re putting in a lot of work. No friendship should feel like homework.
It’s been awhile since I’ve posted. Had a lot going on in the last week! My maid of honor came into town last Thursday and we spent the entire weekend together just hanging out and figuring shit out. It was great and I really needed that. With all the turmoil thats been happening with some of my college friends, I needed time with a real best friend who just gets me without me having to explain everything.
Friendship is so important. And I have a ton of friends but only a handful of true friends that I communicate with on a daily basis and that I trust implicitly. There are some people I’ve needed to cut away like mold from bread because they were poisoning my mind and soul. No one should ever make you feel smaller than you are. Never let anyone treat you like shit just because you need someone to hang out with when everyone else is busy. That’s not fair to you or to that person. I’ve had to learn that and let go.